by Grace Compass Church
In my own opinion, experiences of emotional abuse should not be a hindrance to our own happiness. This should not be the reason for the continuous pain in our lives. If there are bad things that happen to us, it does not mean that we should be miserable in our entire lives. There is always a reason why things happen and that makes us stronger, wiser and better individuals.
There would be instances that you associate your happiness with your childhood. There are times that you are trying to seek replication of your happiness especially if you were not able to achieve such happiness in your childhood. For example women would seek a father figure in every man they can find… and in the long run, they would realize it is not really something that can make them happy or it is not the person they want to be with.
It is important that you respect and care of yourself first then things just go smooth and easy. If your cup is filled, then it simply means that you are capable of giving your love unconditionally. If this happens, it should really make you happy in life and you begin to think of your life plans easily and willingly.
What is important for you has to be important for any partner you can select: don’t accept that your spouse rejects or ignores an important part of you. It is tantamount to rejecting a piece of you, so don’t agree of dumping the things that you like or the things that makes you happy just to make get your partner’s approval.
Some women fall for only a piece of what they ideally see as their potential partner. There are things that are being ignored like the values that she wants from a guy. Sometimes it also happens that their own happiness is compromised when they are not appreciated and valued by their partner.
We need to remember that no matter what emotional abuse we have experienced in our lives, we always need to accept and love. We are responsible for a life that is ours. It is a pity thing to see women tend to accept the pain of an abusive relationship and go on with their lives unhappy and unfulfilled.
When we rediscover ourselves, we can grow, become independent and mature in our lives and in the relationships that we are in. We can consider that emotional abuse is a warning for us to consider which kind of relationship we need and deserve.
It is time to move on and be happy once and for all. Discover your life purpose and make it happen.
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